"CHOICES"

         As a child or offspring of the adult you have always had a choice. Whether it was a choice to scream when you don't get what you want or just wait until that thing is given to you when you do something good. It's the same when you're a teen especially when you're a DAUGHTER.

        

        You will be given choices and you must choose. The right or the wrong, your parents or yours, your family or yours. As a DAUGHTER, I have always seen that the 'PARENTS' choice has the result of them being HAPPY while I'm the OPPOSITE while 'MY' choice contains of HAPPINESS and FREEDOM. It has always been like this. When we're given a choice, we always see 'OURS' as the HAPPY ONE while the 'OTHER' one is like JAIL.

         Well at some point, it's TRUE. When you choose 'YOURS'. You experience FREEDOM, HAPPINESS, EXCITEMENT and the shot of 'I LOVE THIS FEELING' that you have been longing for. How can you resist the smell of the smell of food at a food park. Or the stories your friends are talking about when they watched a movie. Or the never ending laughs and inside jokes you and your friends pass around while eating or just hanging out. Or the feeling or being loved by someone. Or just the memories you will FOREVER cherish and when you get OLD you could just sit back and FEEL the JOY of your teen years when you chose 'YOUR' choice.

         How can you resist that? Well there is always a what if. What if the food at the food park will give you a stomach ache. Or the movie you and your friends are talking about are too inappropriate for your age. Or that your friends are talking bad about someone and you get blamed when it all comes out. Or what if that someone leaves you without an explanation. Who do you come running for when all of this happens and hits you right at the face. YOUR FAMILY. When that moment comes you would eventually say. "I should've chose 'THEIR' choice" But it was too late.

         Ladies and gentlemen, as a daughter-or a teen in general- we want to feel FREE and HAPPY. We get blind of the MOMENTS AND MEMORIES that we'll keep. The statuses and photos that we'll post. But we tend to not think pf the result. We don't think of the what ifs.

       Parents wants us to think before we do. We now understand that. After everything that has happened. But we are also HOPING they could UNDERSTAND this too. That IT doesn't matter what happens, that we are ready to take RISKS than to STAY cooped up inside the house. DAUGHTER-even SONS- teens in general are SOCIAL MONSTERS. They love SOCIALIZING-not everyone but most- make FRIENDS and MEMORIES. They don't want to feel alone and left out. They are FOMO -fear of MISSING OUT- that's why they FOLLOW their choice. They want to TALK and GOSSIP because they're teens. That's in their NATURE. And you can't stop that. You could try but teens WILL ALWAYS BE teens.

             It's okay to CHOOSE. And here I am, a

           longing for memories and fun and this is my point of view.